#SYMC 2012 Thoughts No. 1

I really enjoyed my learning time through all the breakout groups, labs, seminars, and my pre-conference option.  The best part compared to “other” conferences I’ve been to in the past…it was about learning and growing together and not about trying to sell me a book.  In the past I have been to labs where they basically read the back of their book cover, teach the first chapter and tell you that they just released a book that you can purchase in the conference book store.  This wasn’t the case.  It was about group learning.  Almost every presenter that I attended was writing notes from other youth workers in the room when they shared ideas.  There was great feedback and discussion in our breakout groups during all my labs.

All of the presenters were “Authentic”.  They shared their struggles, they didn’t take the time to brag about their groups, and they expressed that they have real problems as well.  They took the time after to stand and answer and ask questions with participants.  They weren’t in hurry to get somewhere else.  They walked and talked with you on their way to session if you still had more questions.  They made themselves available into the late hours.

Over the past couple years I have heard from other friends in youth ministry about the “All-Star” youth pastors…the ones that write books, speak at events, and have large groups.   But let me tell you that this was the first conference that I’ve experienced that didn’t have “All-Stars”.  Everyone was equal here and were very approachable.  We are all in the trenches together.  We are all on the same team.  Everyone there were “Kingdom” minded.

 

Day 3 at #SYMC 2012

Kurt Johnson summed it up best tonight in his closing prayer tonight…”WOW!”  And that is the feeling of mine and many of today’s awesome day at SYMC!  Today started off for me sleeping in…till 10:30AM.  I really do not remember the last time I’ve slept in that late.  But it was great.  I felt very refreshed, but also a little bummed since I missed a breakout session.  Well since I was running late, I got the morning session a few minutes late and decided to chill in the back on the floor.  Worship once again by Tim was a great way to start off a Sunday morning.  Rick Lawerence led our morning devotion time with a video about deaf Jazz Singer Mandy Harvey.  And to have Dad perform was an amazing surprise.   But I really enjoyed the breakout groups during the session this morning.  I was able to make a new friend Troy, from Pennsylvania.  really awesome guy who has  big heart for God.  I had the chance to catch up with a few more times during the day.  And thats what I love about these conferences, finding new friends in ministry.

After the session I went to a session with Group Publishing and learned a lot about their whole process of how the publish all their lines from online to the magazine to books.  Really cool talking with those guys.  i then met my good friend Jason for lunch.  It was great to talk with him and talk about some past things.   Been wanting to have that conversation for years and so glad the opportunity presented itself today.

I then went to Simply Soul Care and caught up with everyone there and we all realized that we had all known each other for years from the old Youth Speciality Message boards… And then I had the chance to provide soul care for a fellow UMC youth worker.  My heart goes out to them and their family during this time in their life and ministry.  It was a very humbling but awesome time in prayer.  Please keep this person in your prayers.

Tonights worship was off the CHAIN!!!!  The Shanes did an amazing job leading in worship.  The Skit guys did my favorite skit and even though I’ve seen it and shown it numerous times, it still brought tears to my eyes.  Derwin Gray…what can I say….He gave the best message I have ever heard at any conference.  He brought it and it was simply amazing.  After his message, he had an alter call and many youth workers came down front and were prayed for.  Words can not describe what God did in this conference today for me and the other youth workers in attendance.

And then it started to Snow here in Louisville…

AMEN!  WOW!!!!!!!

Live Curriculum Part 3:

There are so many great benefits to LIVE Curriculum.  As I stated in my previous blogs on LIVE, the possibilities for your group(s) are endless.  So let’s start off simple, if you just purchase the high school plan…That gives you 4 years worth of material.  Now if you add JR High, you have 6 years of planning taken care of for your students for whatever venue you decided to use it.  On top of that you can add Books of the Bible and have another 2 years of material.   But here is the really cool benefit…Are you ready?  Simply LIVE is in the process of working on Children’s and College Curriculum to their sets of options to be released in the next year!  SO now you can team up with your Children’s pastor and have Curriculum plan that builds upon each other through your entire church.

Another great benefit, that I like to point out is that there is only one type of theology in LIVE….its JESUS!  Its not Calvinist, not Pentecostal, Liberal, Reformed, or Wesleyan…Its Jesus!  Matty will call from time to time and ask me to give someone a call who has a question about the theology of LIVE from someone who works at at Methodist Church.  I’m glad that some people actually think about that before they buy their material of any sorts instead of just buying the greatest and latest item out in the youth ministry curriculum world.   So bottom line is that, its safe and its great for whatever church you work for!

I love how the team at LIVE is always taking suggestions and always updating the curriculum.   There is an area in each lesson where you can leave feedback for their team.  You can tell them of video clip you used or any other add on and they will look at it and will update their lessons.  This is great because as the years go by, they will always be relevant.  LIVE looks into the future and just will not be another irrelevant curriculum that we all used to use.

So what else can I say…

Well if you are a techie, there are some really cool things.  You can access the site from your smart phone or tablet.  If you have an iPad or iPhone, there’s an APP for that!  We use the APP to present our lesson.  But you can also print the lesson.   All the lessons are available on PDF and Word form, so you can download it to almost any device.

LIVE is LIFE CHANGING!   Its life changing for not only students but also the adults who teach it.   Tomorrow I will close out this series on LIVE with how LIVE has changed lives in our students and adults.  LIVE is an amazing tool that shapes the story of God in so many ways!

 

 

Live Curriculum Part II: the Format

LIVE Curriculm is made for YOU and YOUR GROUP.  If you decide to use it as your Youth Lesson, Sunday School Lesson, Small Group Setting, Adult Leadership, Student Leadership, College Ministry, Adult Sunday School or Adult Small Group setting…it works!  The best part about live is that you can customize it to fit YOUR GROUP’S needs!  You can make it as simple as you want or as in depth as you want.  You can be a first time substitute teacher or a twenty year veteran!

So the Lesson assignments are pretty straightforward and if you have plenty of choices.  If you go the High School route, you have 4 years of lessons!  And you can pick and choose.  You just click on the date you want to add a lesson, then click through the lesson selection screen and it to the appropriate calendar(s).  This is great if you have several groups going over the same material.  For our group, we have three types of groups that meet.  We are currently using Books of the Bible for our Small Groups on Wednesday nights, High School Curriculum for our High School Sunday School Classes, and Jr. High Curriculum for our Middle School Sunday School Class.

The really great thing is that you can go into each lesson and edit it to the needs of your group.  You can rearrange the format for the need of each group.  And you even add more questions, mixers, video clips, or whatever you need for the learning needs of your group.  You can even divide it in half if you don’t have the time.  Like I said earlier, it is up to you on how you want to teach it for the needs of your group!

This includes:

1. LEADER PREPARATION

  • LESSON OVERVIEW
  • LESSON OBJECTIVES:  The What, Why, and How
  • PRIMARY SCRIPTURE
  • SECONDARY SCRIPTURES
  • TEACHING PREP:  The short overview below is designed to help you prepare for your lesson. While you may not want to convey this information word-for-word with your teenagers, you’ll definitely want to refer to it as you lead.
  • THE BEFORE & AFTER   
    • Text Message Questions: They
    • provide a couple of different text message questions to send out to your students prior to your meeting. Feel free to use one or both of the questions below. As with the rest of the curriculum, edit these questions to fit the needs of your ministry.

    Parent Email:  They provide you with an email below that you can send to your parents following the lesson. Our hope is to encourage parents to continue the conversation at home. Feel free to edit and customize the email to fit your ministry needs.

  • 2.   LESSON GUIDE
  • GETTING THINGS STARTED [optional]
  • Before your meeting, send a text message or email (as listed above) to your students asking them to bring an item that reflects something they love. It may be an iPod that represents their love for music, a picture of their family, or a baseball glove to reflect their love for baseball.
  •  TEACHING POINTS
  • The goal of the Teaching Points is to help students capture the essence of each lesson with more discussion and less lecture-style teaching. The main points we have chosen here are (1) We are created in God’s image, (2) We reflect God’s love more by what we do that by what we say, (3) We reflect God’s love by putting others’ needs first, and (4) Accept the responsibility of reaching the people God has given you today.  Remember: All throughout these lessons, it’s up to you to choose (1) how many questions you use, and (2) the wording of the main points—keep ours, or change the wording to make it clearer for your students.
  •  ****SAY SOMETHING LIKE: I Love this!  They give your volunteers help here!  They help fill the awkward moments by giving them something to say!
  • ADDITIONAL DISCUSSION [optional]
  • SUMMARY
  • End your lesson here. Provide your teenagers with a quick summary or take-home challenge based on (1) the content of this lesson, (2) the dialogue that took place during the lesson, (3) your understanding of the issues and struggles your teenagers are facing, and (4) the big picture of your youth ministry and what your leadership team wants accomplished with the teaching and discussion time.
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  • FOR KEEPS [MEMORY VERSE]
  • Encourage and challenge your teenagers to memorize the verse below.

 

 

And it doesn’t stop there!  You can even add your own lessons!  There is a great feature of File Upload.  You upload your word document or pdf and add it to your calendar.

And if you have no clue what you are doing, just go to the Help tab and watch the videos to help you walk through everything!  If you still can’t get it…just call Matty!  He’s a great help!  Or you can just call me!  I’ve actually helped several people walk through things…but really its not that hard!  The sky is the limit with LIVE!

Right now they offer 4 years of High School, 2 Years of JR High, 60 weeks of Adult and Student Leadership, 72 weeks of the Bible, several video series…and that’s just the beginning.  They are in the process of working on Children’s Curriculum and College Curriculum!   But in the mean time you can still use and customize any of the others for your group.  At my current church we have used the Books of the Bible for our College Small groups!  So take a test drive today and give Matty a call!

 

Simply Youth SoulCare

 

 

This past fall I saw a tweet about a new ministry by Simply Youth called Soul Care.  I took a look at the site and thought it was an area that has been needed in youth ministry for the longest time.  Over the past six months I’ve had to deal with several things in ministry and in my personal life that I was unsure where to go to for answers, prayer, an ear to listen, and advice.  One night in September after praying for several hours about a difficult situation in ministry I was dealing with I opened up twitter on my iPhone and saw a tweet from @SYMsoulcare .  It was asking for any prayer requests.  So I sent a DM to them and had a response within a few minutes.  The next day I filled out the form and got a call from one of my friends who is a big part of SYM Soul Care and talked to him about the situation.  It was great to have an ear outside of my everyday circle to listen to what was going on.  It was even more encouraging with the followup and knowing so many were praying for me and my situation.

Since that time I have leaned on SYM soul care for several ministry and personal situations.   On their site, SYM Soul Care describes their ministry as:

Everyone experiences highs & lows in life & ministry, and sometimes it can feel like there is no “safe place” to turn when things get tough. But you’re not alone. Simply Soul Care is a new ministry outreach from Group & Simply Youth Ministry that offers youth workers free, confidential pastoral support when you need it. It’s like “urgent care” for a youth worker’s heart & soul! This ministry first began onsite as “the Shelter” at the Simply Youth Ministry Conference, and we’ve realized the need extends outside the conference walls all year long.

Like I described in one of my situations back in September, they go above and beyond the call in a much needed area.  Thanks to this amazing group of people!  They have been a light during a few dark and confusing times over the past few months.  They are more than just a text, an email, or phone call.  They are a network of prayer warriors that are Kingdom minded!  I’m very glad to have them in youth ministry.  It is a long overdue ministry that is and has been needed.  I look back at the last fourteen plus years of ministry and wished they would have been there for other times.

I’m a strong believer in prayer and helping others build up the body of Christ.  If you are going through something personally or professionally in youth ministry, don’t care the burden yourself.  Take a moment and go to their site and fill out the form.  You will not regret it.  And if you are going to SYMC next month be sure to join the Facebook group to connect with them while you are there.  And if you are going to SYMC leave a comment below or shoot me a message on here, twitter @uscerock , or Facebook.  I would love to catch up with you there!